FAQ's

What is child abuse?

Although there are many formal and acceptable definitions of child abuse, the following is offered as a guide. Child abuse consists of any act that endangers or impairs a child's physical or emotional health and development. Child abuse includes any damage done to a child which cannot be reasonably explained and which is often represented by an injury or series of injuries appearing to be non-accidental in nature.

Major forms of child abuse

Physical abuse - Any non-accidental injury to a child. This includes hitting, kicking, slapping, shaking, burning, pinching, hair pulling, biting, choking, throwing, shoving, whipping, and paddling.

Sexual abuse - Any sexual act between an adult and child. May also occur between children. This includes fondling, oral sex, intercourse, exploitation, pornography, exhibitionism, child prostitution, or forced observation of sexual acts.

Neglect - Failure to provide for a child's physical needs. This includes lack of supervision, inappropriate housing or shelter, inadequate provision of food, inappropriate clothing for season or weather, abandonment, denial of medical care, and inadequate hygiene.

Emotional abuse - Any attitude or behavior which interferes with a child's mental health or social development. This includes yelling, screaming, name-calling, shaming, negative comparisons to others, telling them they are "bad, no good, worthless" or "a mistake". It also includes the failure to provide the affection and support necessary for the development of a child's emotional, social, physical and intellectual well-being.

Indicators of Possible Abuse

Please note that the listed indicators in each category may pertain to more than one type of abuse or neglect. For example, “lack of concentration” could be a sign of sexual abuse, as well as emotional abuse.

PHYSICAL ABUSE
1. Unexplained burns, cuts, bruises, or welts in the shape of an object
2. Bite marks
3. Anti-social behavior
4. Problems in school
5. Fear of adults

EMOTIONAL ABUSE
1. Apathy
2. Depression
3. Hostility or stress
4. Lack of concentration
5. Eating disorders

SEXUAL ABUSE
1. Inappropriate interest or knowledge of sexual acts
2. Nightmares and bed wetting
3. Drastic changes in appetite
4. Overcompliance or excessive aggression
5. Fear of a particular person or family member

NEGLECT
1. Unsuitable clothing for weather
2. Dirty or unbathed
3. Extreme hunger
4. Apparent lack of supervision

What to do if a child tells you they have been abused

1. Be approachable- ready to talk and listen
2. Always remain calm- may reaffirm child’s fears if you appear upset or angry
3. Reassure them you are glad they told you
4. Don’t make any promises
5. Don’t keep it a secret
6. Seek the appropriate help immediately
7. Call Local Law Enforcement or 1-800-96-Abuse

How to Reinforce Personal Safety at Home

1. Always be approachable, let kids know they can always come to you with problems or questions
2. List trusted adults they can talk to
3. Use appropriate correct name for body parts
4. Have touching rules in your family
5. Watch videos or read books about personal safety
6. Role play “ what if “ situations
7. Let them know that it is ok to say no to an adult who wants to touch their private parts
8. Let them know they have a right in who touches them